Couple of different answers to this issue which we have actually addressed in the
Idiot's Guide to the Matrix thread.
Deception of Reactive IC is possible by just dropping into Cybercombat and using the Evade Detection Maneuver (or using it multiple times). There's a pretty good example on page 8 of the above thread where the decker does just that to some Scout IC. However this assumes you've detected the triggered Reactive IC in the first place.
On the other hand given the description of Probe (and Scout), especifically the bit about detecting "operations performed by
unauthorized programs", I've would assume that possessing a previously Validated Account means you have a Valid ID to throw at the IC which will "turn it off".