I've found the rules that say how much can be carried but can't find gear weights withthe gear stats. Help please. Where are they?

IIRC gear weight, much like computer memory, was ruled as "too complicated and boring to be fun" so was handwaved away into the fuzzy realm of Gamemaster Discretion.

Yes, the new rule is, basically, "you can carry a sensible amount of gear."

It beats passing out after 30 seconds of carrying your own weight. (SR3 rules for average humans)