How would they detect each other?
1) They are both outside of each other's 100m physical wireless antenna range. (p235 left column)
2) They don't know "a feature" of each other (p235 sidebar)
3) They can't see each other's Personas as they're running silent.
What makes me think that you cannot find each other feasibly is this piece from page 235 on Running Silent:
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the first thing you need to do is have some idea that a hidden icon is out there. You can do this with a hit from a Matrix Perception Test; asking if there are icons runningsilent in the vicinity (either in the same host or within 100 meters) can be a piece of information you learn with a hit.
It refers to that 100 meters around your physical location again, meaning Matrix perception is not a 100m AOE scan of wherever your Persona is at the time.
Hence, how could you detect each other out in the Matrix?