Hyzmarca,
I've always read your posts with interest and none moreso than when you take a hyper-rational and lateral approach to morality. I remember a number of threads where we got into some interesting debates, going right back to the sadly closed one on pederasty in Ancient Greece. And I've been curious as to whether you take the same approach in real life, or if it's a thought exercise.
I'm obviously not asking if you ever have or would take a sander to someone's face, but is your post saying that you think such a course of action would be a good thing, justified, or merely that it's the emotional reaction that tempts you?
No answer required, I'm just interested to know what you think.
-Khadim.
I've always read your posts with interest and none moreso than when you take a hyper-rational and lateral approach to morality. I remember a number of threads where we got into some interesting debates, going right back to the sadly closed one on pederasty in Ancient Greece. And I've been curious as to whether you take the same approach in real life, or if it's a thought exercise.
I'm obviously not asking if you ever have or would take a sander to someone's face, but is your post saying that you think such a course of action would be a good thing, justified, or merely that it's the emotional reaction that tempts you?
No answer required, I'm just interested to know what you think.
-Khadim.
In all important things, rationality is of the utmost necessity. That is certain. Emotional reactions are great but they must be tempered with rationality. It annoys me to no end when knee-jerk reactionaries allow their emotions to cloud their judgment, particularly when they affect social policy.
Absurdly brutal personal revenge is appealing to me because it requires methodical rationality, as opposed to the more knee-jerk versions of revenge which often get the wrong person. It combines emotional catharsis with cold precision. That being said, it certainly isn't good or just, not with the excessive brutality. Still, sometimes justice doesn't really matter. I'm willing to be a hypocrite once in a while. I'd certainly sympathize with a person who took such revenge.
I do know that in some cases revenge isn't just a temptation; it is a necessity. An abused child should be able to exact revenge, even if it is just the opportunity to visit the abuser in jail to gloat. Total excess isn't necessary, but the child must be able to retrieve that lost power somehow. I also support corporal punishment in some cases, because it is often less cruel than prison. Giving a child the chance to turn the tables on an abuser is certainly good. But legally mandated or permitted punishments must not be excessive. There is no justice in excess. Justice is about equity.
I don't have any children but I want to someday. I often think about how I'd react in certain situations. Abuse is something that one can't help but think about these days. I know that I'd avoid doing anything which risks prison, that would be counterproductive and only hurt an injured child more; but if circumstances permitted it without risk then the facial grind would be very tempting. All I can be sure of is that I wouldn't kill the person with my own hands for the simple reason that it would deprive my child of the chance to take back that lost power. If there were no risk. Reality would lead to a more tempered and even response, possibly one that involves buying cigarettes for the abuser's cellmate, Bubba, and talking to him about that happened - without suggesting anything illegal, of course.
I was getting all set to argue with you ... until I read the first sentence of your second paragraph.
Don't let that stop you; we all love a good argument.