I've played the game where the hidden setting does allow you to sent information out but not allow to recieve it without an free action. If a node is hidden how does a friendly send a message to it? If a friendly can send a wi-fi signal to it while hidden, that wi-fi can be detected at the node point, whether or not the node is on, and a hacker can crack the wifi and discover the node when the hidden node recieves the signal. I don't see how you can have it both ways: both running hidden and freely communicate.
It's the communication that other people can use to scan for a hidden commlink. Wireless receivers are more like a microphone than a camera: they can detect when something is making noise, but not its location. Thus, it takes a little work to find something that's transmitting but not announcing its presence.