QUOTE (hobgoblin @ Oct 25 2008, 11:01 AM)

a variant of the old "a armed society is a polite society"?
i guess it can be correct, in that humans seems to gravitate to wards all kinds of negative behavior if one can get away with it.
sad really...
Education does matter.
If people are raised with the concept that you shouldn't do to the others what you wouldn't want to be done to you, that your freedom ends where other's freedom starts and you have to respect to be respected, it would be natural to be polite unless your dealing with someone whos asking for rudeness.
Obviously the politeness must be sign of respect or it becomes just an insult (what would you prefer, brash respect or silken packaged comptent?); and living condition matters to if you're subject to unfair social condition, wihtout a way to make a living you tend to get frustrated and end up needing to vent out (social inequities foster violence).
Add to this that all to often people don't have the time (or willingness) to stay with their children, that consumism have brought to a "me before everything else" mind asset, the media that often give the message that in order to be "cool" you must impose yourself over others (seriously when I was a child we usualy competed to tell how rich/important our parents were, every one had the BIGGEST cars and houses, I remenber that onces I said that my father owned a bank, all to "gain" status among fellow todlers; nowdays I similar discussions among children, with the difference that now is not "I'm something big" but "you are dreck", I've even seen thing going phisical) and you unthestand that is not a matter of people don't fear retribution, heck weapons in a such contest just encourage "do it yourself justice" and escalation to violence (which is good for arms manufacturers).
By personal axperience I tell that etiquette enforced trought fear produces subjects that as soon as they can get away with it they'll break away from said etiquette, and possibly from respect for people (even to the point of phisical violence).
And for the weapons line.... have you ever seen "Bowling to Columbine"?