QUOTE (Yerameyahu @ Jul 16 2010, 02:38 PM)

So? It's just a game. A non-competitive game. Let them 'miss the point', and the assumption that it 'ruins the game' is merely that. Respect and fairness are irrelevant, because the GM is running the game. It can't be 'unfair'.
It is possible for a player to ruin the game, yes. There are any number of ways to do this, and 'cheating' is hardly the biggest (or surest) of them. The jerk player is a problem, because of *being a jerk*.
I see the big difference at least between you and me about this. To you "it's just a game". To me this is my hobby. This thing we do here, is far more than just a game. That word 'game' is what trips more people up than any other one word does in this genre. Can you name any other 'game' that you 'play' for hundreds maybe even thousands of hours over the course of months or even years?
That is precisely why I call this my hobby. This is what I do for enjoyment, it takes both effort and time for that enjoyment. Gaming with someone who rates it no better than Uno or Settlers of Catan or Freeze-Tag is missing the fundamental aspect of what this actually is.
What strikes me odd at your post here is "
A non-competitive game....Respect and fairness are irrelevant". I am leaning towards the concept that to you only a competitive game should have respect and fairness?
QUOTE (Yerameyahu @ Jul 16 2010, 02:55 PM)

Sigh. I'm not saying people should cheat. I'm saying that the only way it's a problem is if it breaks the game, which is not the guaranteed result. It is a possible result. The game can also be broken by legal overpowered characters, by distraction, by characters refusing to 'play along', by the GM (in countless ways). Cheating, which can be wholly innocuous, is not the same as breaking the game.
Fairness isn't an issue, because you can't be unfair. The GM can be unfair, but only by breaking the rules and, therefore, not being much of a GM.
Respect isn't an issue because all that matters is your actions, not what you think. I've certainly played with people I didn't respect, and I'm sure each of you interacts successfully with people you don't respect in your daily life. You can also act in game-breaking ways even when you *do* respect people. It is not related, unless you define 'respect' as 'playing nicely'.
When someone puts legal and overpowered next to each other I can safely say that
to me they have completely missed the whole premise of what an RPG is and does.