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HMHVV Hunter
QUOTE (FanGirl)
that indicates that at least some people commit rape because, consciously or unconsciously, they somehow don't understand the true nature of their actions.

Jeez...seriously, how difficult is it to get through one's head - NO MEANS NO! How can a guy, barring such things like the asthma attack above, possibly have so much trouble realizing the nature of what he's doing?

I'm interested in how many of those 84% who said it was "definitely not rape" really misinterpreted things and how many of those are just sociopathic bastards trying to find a way out.
Unrest
QUOTE (HMHVV Hunter)

Jeez...seriously, how difficult is it to get through one's head - NO MEANS NO! How can a guy, barring such things like the asthma attack above, possibly have so much trouble realizing the nature of what he's doing?

I'm interested in how many of those 84% who said it was "definitely not rape" really misinterpreted things and how many of those are just sociopathic bastards trying to find a way out.

Because no doesn't always mean no. I'll play the bad guy for the moment and point out to those who haven't done much dating that a large number of women, for some reason far beyond my grasp, just love to send out an endless number of what can be best described as mixed signals. Confuse the hell out of a guy who is already intoxicated and "No" quickly loses any and all meaning. As was already pointed out you can't always blame rape entirely on men, though in certain cases you can. I will also point out that believing you are incapable of the act of rape is one of the worst things you can ever do and is probably what most of that 84% had in their heads already.

I'm not going to go any futher than that though. Trying to end rape is a really cute cause but much like war, terrorism and animal cruelty its here to stay.
HMHVV Hunter
QUOTE (Unrest)
QUOTE (HMHVV Hunter @ May 19 2006, 09:27 AM)

Jeez...seriously, how difficult is it to get through one's head - NO MEANS NO!  How can a guy, barring such things like the asthma attack above, possibly have so much trouble realizing the nature of what he's doing?

I'm interested in how many of those 84% who said it was "definitely not rape" really misinterpreted things and how many of those are just sociopathic bastards trying to find a way out.

Because no doesn't always mean no. I'll play the bad guy for the moment and point out to those who haven't done much dating that a large number of women, for some reason far beyond my grasp, just love to send out an endless number of what can be best described as mixed signals.

You've gotta be fuckin' joking...

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Platinum
QUOTE (Unrest @ May 19 2006, 10:50 AM)
QUOTE (HMHVV Hunter @ May 19 2006, 09:27 AM)

Jeez...seriously, how difficult is it to get through one's head - NO MEANS NO!  How can a guy, barring such things like the asthma attack above, possibly have so much trouble realizing the nature of what he's doing?

I'm interested in how many of those 84% who said it was "definitely not rape" really misinterpreted things and how many of those are just sociopathic bastards trying to find a way out.

Because no doesn't always mean no. I'll play the bad guy for the moment and point out to those who haven't done much dating that a large number of women, for some reason far beyond my grasp, just love to send out an endless number of what can be best described as mixed signals. Confuse the hell out of a guy who is already intoxicated and "No" quickly loses any and all meaning. As was already pointed out you can't always blame rape entirely on men, though in certain cases you can. I will also point out that believing you are incapable of the act of rape is one of the worst things you can ever do and is probably what most of that 84% had in their heads already.

I'm not going to go any futher than that though. Trying to end rape is a really cute cause but much like war, terrorism and animal cruelty its here to stay.

I would like to point out, that if she was using one of those devices, and wanted intercourse, she would have removed it, so you could take that as intent, (didn't say consent because decisions can flip back and fourth) if you get stuck in one, then no meant no.
James McMurray
Would it be possible to have monowire underwear? If they try to get them out of their way their fingers land on the ground.

Every woman should have a troll named Bubba following them around. This troll would have a constant headware commlink singal with that woman. His (or her) job is to listen to her mental dialogue when she's saying No. If she really means it, he lets the guy know.

This would have two primary benefits. One, you're gonna know if she really means "no," Two, lots of trolls get jobs, but only if they're willing to change their name to Bubba.

Likewise, every man could have a troll named Babette following him around with the same setup. We could give every dog and cat a barghest or hellhound gaurdian with behavioral modification cyberware keyed to the sexual hormones of the gaurdian.

On the original topic: education and "keep it in your pants" would fix everything. Unfortunately as others have said it isn't always possible. I personally feel that someone without that amount of self control should be locked away until their psyches are repaired, but the only way to know they lack that control is to have it actually happen, which doesn't prevent the rape. It might prevent future rapes.
FanGirl
Who's going to protect the trolls, then?

Plus, I bet that it would get very confusing if there were a bunch of trolls with the same name walking around. I know that my great-great grandpa had problems because of this: his original name was Carl Carlson, but then he joined the Swedish navy and found that there were so many guys who were also named Carl Carlson that he had to change his last name in order to avoid confusion. Then again, we also have plenty of Mr. Johnsons running around, so maybe Bubbas wouldn't be all that much of an adjustment. It's an interesting concept.

I also think the monofilament panties idea is cool, though I doubt that monofilament clothing would be very comfortable to wear. eek.gif
Daddy's Little Ninja
QUOTE (HMHVV Hunter)
QUOTE (Unrest @ May 19 2006, 10:50 AM)
QUOTE (HMHVV Hunter @ May 19 2006, 09:27 AM)

Jeez...seriously, how difficult is it to get through one's head - NO MEANS NO!  How can a guy, barring such things like the asthma attack above, possibly have so much trouble realizing the nature of what he's doing?

I'm interested in how many of those 84% who said it was "definitely not rape" really misinterpreted things and how many of those are just sociopathic bastards trying to find a way out.

Because no doesn't always mean no. I'll play the bad guy for the moment and point out to those who haven't done much dating that a large number of women, for some reason far beyond my grasp, just love to send out an endless number of what can be best described as mixed signals.

You've gotta be fuckin' joking...

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I am so glad you said that before I did. That is offensive beyond words and beyond beinmg wrong is just the sort of defense use by the sort of creep who then tries to justify violating a woman.
Kagetenshi
Duh buh wha?

The fact that it isn't a justifiable defense doesn't mean it isn't true, people.

~J
mfb
while i agree that it might be possible to prevent some rape by providing counselling to men (or boys, rather, as it's easier to teach kids), in the end, the only person really responsible for your safety is that you.

QUOTE (Unrest)
Because no doesn't always mean no. I'll play the bad guy for the moment and point out to those who haven't done much dating that a large number of women, for some reason far beyond my grasp, just love to send out an endless number of what can be best described as mixed signals. Confuse the hell out of a guy who is already intoxicated and "No" quickly loses any and all meaning. As was already pointed out you can't always blame rape entirely on men, though in certain cases you can. I will also point out that believing you are incapable of the act of rape is one of the worst things you can ever do and is probably what most of that 84% had in their heads already.


indeed. while the guy in these situations is 100% guilty, the girl in these situations is a fucking idiot. if an animal gets loose and mauls someone, you put the animal down. but for chrissake, what were you doing playing around in front of a dangerous animal to begin with!?

many people have this strange idea that somehow, their personal safety should be taken for granted. that violent things happen to someone else. that if they go walking down a dark alley alone, or--more likely--tease a drunk stranger, nothing bad will happen.

you are not safe. there are no bars on the cages in real life. punish the perpetrators, definitely--but your safety is your job.
James McMurray
It's very easy for even the most watchful person to be caught off gaurd by someone who turns out to be dangerous. This is especially true of the person doesn't think they're dangerous and is convinced that what they're doing is right for the situation. It's impossible to pickup on signs of deception when there's no deception being done.

I do agree with you that safety is the primary concern of the person involved, but it isn't always possible. Even Snow Fox and her gun could be caught off gaurd and raped in the right (or should I say wrong) circumstances. Both sides of the fence need to be covered.

To use the animal analogy: we should tame the animal while also teaching the person how to behave around animals.
mfb
agreed. but in the end, society is not and cannot be directly responsible for your personal safety. i think that if someone is truly interested in not being raped (or otherwise having their personal safety assaulted), they ought to take measures so that the many cases where proper self-defense could change the outcome of a bad situation, they'll have the tools at their disposal to do it.

especially if they want to perform such hare-brained activities as saying 'no' to a drunk person of the opposite sex while continuing to be sexually flirtatious with them.
hobgoblin
hmm, i think maybe i should start using a metal walking stick from now on. allways handy for beating someone up with, and will not scream weapon like a knife or gun...
James McMurray
QUOTE (mfb)
they ought to take measures so that the many cases where proper self-defense could change the outcome of a bad situation, they'll have the tools at their disposal to do it.

True, which is why mental preparedness should be a part of any self defense training. All the technique in the world won't help you if you're too scared, surprised, or emotionally attached to use it.
Daddy's Little Ninja
QUOTE (James McMurray @ May 19 2006, 01:42 PM)
It's very easy for even the most watchful person to be caught off gaurd by someone who turns out to be dangerous. This is especially true of the person doesn't think they're dangerous and is convinced that what they're doing is right for the situation. It's impossible to pickup on signs of deception when there's no deception being done.

I do agree with you that safety is the primary concern of the person involved, but it isn't always possible. Even Snow Fox and her gun could be caught off gaurd and raped in the right (or should I say wrong) circumstances. Both sides of the fence need to be covered.

To use the animal analogy: we should tame the animal while also teaching the person how to behave around animals.

I am not supporting women who act stupidly but the ultimate responsibility is with the man who does the crime. Remember Mike Tyson's conviction? Everyone agreed the woman was an air head, but he was still guilty. Even a complete bubble brain with less common sense than a grain of rice does not 'deserve' to be violated because she is stupid.

To say anything else is like saying a woman invited a rape because of how she dresses. It is truly offensive.

martial arts training more than anything means when surprised you react, not freeze. SF is one of the most aware-of-her-surrounding people I know. We have another friend, Lisa. When someone tried to mug her in the subway, she just stabbed the mugger in the throat with her umbrella. She was labelled the "Totes Vigilante."
mfb
QUOTE (Daddy's Little Ninja)
To say anything else is like saying a woman invited a rape because of how she dresses. It is truly offensive.

you find it offensive that people get hurt if they act stupidly in dangerous situations? guess what: if a women dresses provocatively, acts provocative towards drunk or otherwise uninhibited people of the opposite sex, and then wanders off alone, there's a better chance that she's going to get raped than a woman who does not do these things. you can be offended by that all you like, but it doesn't change its basic truth.
Daddy's Little Ninja
And it does not change the fact that the ultimate blame falls on the man who did it.

Sure she is stupid. She is more at risk than a woman who stays home. But ultimately it falls on the sexist pig that thinks it is an invitation to violate her.

mfb
i'm not saying it does. and i'm not saying that i would take that invitation. but it is an invitation.
Lindt
Ok boys and girls, lets simmer down now. No sense geting another semi-topical thred locked because of flameing.

On that note however, Im fully in support of Bubba the Troll safty.
emo samurai
I should include him in my campaign!!!
James McMurray
I beileve I've seen emntion of Bubba the Love Troll around here. You may want to do a search on that. Having Love Trolls and antirapist trolls both named Bubba could cuse some amusing confusions. Well, amusing from the outside. Probably not all that amusing to the participants. biggrin.gif

"Hey Vinnie. I need Bubba to go to the club with my daughter. Bobby said he was really good so I'd like the same one he used." Unbeknownst to Daddy bobby has strange sexual tastes. His referral was talking about the troll he sends out with his wife, but Bubba Inc.'s operator doesn't know. :0
TheOneRonin
Let me put mfb's example in a different context.

If some rich guy is slumming in the bad part of town, flashing his stacks of cash and expensive jewelry, is anyone gonna feel sorry for him if he gets mugged? Probably not. Did the mugger committ a crime? Most certainly. Is the rich guy a victim? Most certainly. Should the mugger get prosecuted and sent to jail/prison? Most certainly. Did the Rich guy's stupidity contribute to him putting himself in a situation that allowed him to easily be victimized? Most certainly.

I have two daughters, and I make it a point to educate them on how to protect themselves and not get into bad situations in the first place. I belive that THEY are responsible for keeping themselves safe when I'm not around.

I think people need to take more responsibility for their actions and not feel that the world is a smiley, happy place where there are no bad people and as long as you are a good person, nothing bad will happen to you.
Glyph
I don't blame the victim, ever. Sure, if someone is stupid, it increases the odds that something bad will happen to them, but it doesn't make someone else's bad actions their fault.

I disagree with the whole "sex education can stop men from being rapists" attitude, too. I think seeing all men as potential rapists is a big insult to most men. And I don't think any rapist is going to go to a college presentation and stop being a rapist. Rapists are not like most people - they are subhuman filth, and death is too good for them. They don't need counseling, they need a bullet in the head. The only things that consistently reduce the rates of violent crimes are incarceration, and vigilance on the part of potential victims.


Now, to bring this back to Shadowrun... How do you think near-universal commlinks would affect such crimes? I mean, every victim could be chatting with 3 different people, or taking a video and sound recording of you - it would have to make some would-be perpetrators think twice.
James McMurray
QUOTE
I don't blame the victim, ever. Sure, if someone is stupid, it increases the odds that something bad will happen to them, but it doesn't make someone else's bad actions their fault.


I agree completely. There are things you can do that will lower your chances of being raped / mugged / burglarized / etc. But in the end the fault rests entirely on the shoulders of the person who commited the crime.

Sex education could work, if done at an early age. College presentations will never work. Grade school curriculums with pre-K emphasis on things (done at their intellectual level of course) is what I think needs to happen.
mfb
QUOTE (Glyph)
Rapists are not like most people - they are subhuman filth, and death is too good for them. They don't need counseling, they need a bullet in the head.

oh, give me a break. "rapists are not like most people" my butt. they're exactly like most people--they're like anyone who has ever lost control and done some thing wrong.

re: blame and fault, this isn't about blame or fault. sure, like i've said, the rapist is 100% guilty. and the victim, in many situations, is 100% moron for putting herself or himself in the situation to begin with.
HMHVV Hunter
QUOTE (mfb)
and the victim, in many situations, is 100% moron for putting herself or himself in the situation to begin with.

What situation? The situation of thinking she could *gasp* be ALONE with a trusted friend?! Oh god, she's soooooooo stupid!

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mfb
QUOTE (HMHVV Hunter)
What situation? The situation of thinking she could *gasp* be ALONE with a trusted friend?! Oh god, she's soooooooo stupid!

yes, exactly, that situation. do you not understand that the world is a dangerous place? that no one is guaranteed to be safe? are you really naive enough to think that just because you trust someone, they won't hurt you?
Kagetenshi
QUOTE (Glyph)
Rapists are not like most people - they are subhuman filth, and death is too good for them. They don't need counseling, they need a bullet in the head.

You are not merely wrong, you are a part of the problem.

~J
Glyph
mfb: All right, I guess in a way doing bad things is all too human. But I was reacting to the failed "rehabilitation" model that sends too many rapists and other violent criminals out to commit the same crimes again, because they've had "counseling". I've seen too many repeat offenders to have much faith in that.

And yeah, education could help if done at an early age, when attitudes are still being formed. I don't think it does much good when someone already is that kind of criminal, though.


Now, in Shadowrun terms, what kind of "rehabilitation" do you think violent criminals might receive? A simsense recording from a victim's POV? Subliminal messages or psychotropic programming? What kind of side effects would there be (A Clockwork Orange, anyone)? Would the "cure" be worse than the disease in some cases?

On the flip side, could some evil NPC use subliminal mods in a simchip to turn people into violent criminals?
Kanada Ten
QUOTE (Glyph)
How do you think near-universal commlinks would affect such crimes? I mean, every victim could be chatting with 3 different people, or taking a video and sound recording of you - it would have to make some would-be perpetrators think twice.

Let's take this back to the more common rape scenario with the universal commlinks (the eyepod). We have - today, 2006 - a computer controlled monitoring system in Chicago that uses cameras and visual recognition software to determine crimes in progress: So, we can assume it is possible to design software that would combine data from sensors (in the home, on the person[s]), which could analyze situations to various degrees. Rape Prevention, Personal Relationship, Counselling, Automagic Panic Button - even without psychotropic effects, universal commlinks could change the way we interact on a fundamental level. The little devil on your shoulder casually says, "That no meant no."

I was also thinking that putting nasties like Vagina Dentata and your Ares Markmanship score in your personal profile might help deter the (rare) scouting or serial rapists.

QUOTE (mfb)
Are you really naive enough to think that just because you trust someone, they won't hurt you?

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QUOTE (eidolon)
Sounds like someone has a "pet topic of the month/semester/insert appropriate time period here".

Like your ubiquitous "internet etiquette" interjections?
mfb
QUOTE (Glyph)
But I was reacting to the failed "rehabilitation" model that sends too many rapists and other violent criminals out to commit the same crimes again, because they've had "counseling". I've seen too many repeat offenders to have much faith in that.

i agree that rehabilitation doesn't always work.

as for chipping people to turn then into violent criminals, it's easily possible in SR. check out Winternight.
HMHVV Hunter
QUOTE (Glyph)
mfb: All right, I guess in a way doing bad things is all too human. But I was reacting to the failed "rehabilitation" model that sends too many rapists and other violent criminals out to commit the same crimes again, because they've had "counseling". I've seen too many repeat offenders to have much faith in that.

Actually, I saw a study once that recidivism rates for sex offenders are actually lower than that of most other crimes (something like 19%)

Then again, maybe your line of work exposes you mostly to that 19% or something; I dunno.
Snow_Fox
QUOTE (Unrest @ May 19 2006, 09:50 AM)
QUOTE (HMHVV Hunter @ May 19 2006, 09:27 AM)

Jeez...seriously, how difficult is it to get through one's head - NO MEANS NO!  How can a guy, barring such things like the asthma attack above, possibly have so much trouble realizing the nature of what he's doing?

I'm interested in how many of those 84% who said it was "definitely not rape" really misinterpreted things and how many of those are just sociopathic bastards trying to find a way out.

Because no doesn't always mean no. I'll play the bad guy for the moment and point out to those who haven't done much dating that a large number of women, for some reason far beyond my grasp, just love to send out an endless number of what can be best described as mixed signals. Confuse the hell out of a guy who is already intoxicated and "No" quickly loses any and all meaning. As was already pointed out you can't always blame rape entirely on men, though in certain cases you can. I will also point out that believing you are incapable of the act of rape is one of the worst things you can ever do and is probably what most of that 84% had in their heads already.

I'm not going to go any futher than that though. Trying to end rape is a really cute cause but much like war, terrorism and animal cruelty its here to stay.

In defense of this nitwit, a lot of people have talked about women acting stupidly being responsible for their fate.
That having been said, you are clearly not saying that. You have just said "mixed signals." The usual defense of a cretin who decided he knows better what a woman wants than she knows herself. It is in the face of these 'ambiguous signals' that the phrase 'no means no' came out. It is NOT ambigous. The whole idea is that it is a direct statement with which there is not risk of misinterpretation.

Saying it "really cute" to want ot prevent rape? You are not just wrong, you're offensive. let's just take it to the logical end of your claim that there came be ambiguity in the word: NO. I hold a blade to your testicles and ask if you'd like me to cut them off? Remember, according to you, no doesn't always mean no. so YOU out of the gene pool!
mfb
QUOTE (Snow Fox)
You are not just wrong, you're offensive...

i really don't understand how anyone can be offended by the idea that doing stupid things in dangerous situations will get you hurt. nobody gets offended when i say that jumping off cliffs is likely to kill you.

as far as "no means no", i think this statement is as much a warning for possible victims as it is for possible rapists. if you don't want to have sex with someone, you need to state that in clear terms that can't be misunderstood. that doesn't mean saying "no" while you snuggle up against him. that doesn't mean coming up for air in the middle of a deep kiss and saying "no", then playing more tonsil hockey. that means saying "no" and getting out of the situation.

if you say "no" but act "yes", you're hurting yourself. unless you say "no" and back it up with action, many guys aren't going to stop. is that right? does that mean the guy has the right to keep going? no, of course not. but the basic fact is that if you are not strong enough, mentally and emotionally, to remove yourself from a situation before it gets out of hand, what makes you think he's going to be?
Arethusa
Is there something so many of you are finding particularly difficult about grasping responsibility as something more complex than facile dichotomy?
mfb
which "you"?
Arethusa
Yeah, that got massively instaposted.

So, HMHVV Hunter, Snow_Fox, and I'm sure many others, try this: culpability of the criminal is not mutually exclusive of broader responsibility of the society (including, yes, the victim) that creates an environment that makes that crime possible. This extends well beyond rape.
Kanada Ten
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On the flip side, could some evil NPC use subliminal mods in a simchip to turn people into violent criminals?

I just had a thought about ubiquitous AR... Cyber Rape. Sort of an extreme form of a Spam Attack. To be really "effective" the victim needs to accept simsense feed, but that's common among club goers. Worse, the perpetrator could be watching from miles away and using agents to do the dirty work.
James McMurray
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I was also thinking that putting nasties like Vagina Dentata and your Ares Markmanship score in your personal profile might help deter the (rare) scouting or serial rapists.


LOL! I know I wouldn't try to rape someone with a broadcasting concealed carry license and vagina dentata. But this is Shadowrun, the world of bleak hopelessness. That's a broadcast invitation to the truly degenerate.
James McMurray
QUOTE (Kanada Ten)
QUOTE
On the flip side, could some evil NPC use subliminal mods in a simchip to turn people into violent criminals?

I just had a thought about ubiquitous AR... Cyber Rape. Sort of an extreme form of a Spam Attack. To be really "effective" the victim needs to accept simsense feed, but that's common among club goers. Worse, the perpetrator could be watching from miles away and using agents to do the dirty work.

Does Strange Days ring any bells?
Kanada Ten
Acting so bad I could only watch 10 minutes of it... But I could guess the plot had something to do with rapesims? I'm sure those exist (where someone with a simrig is raped... by someone with a simrig), but AR makes random rape possible - though I suppose it was always possible with VR.
James McMurray
It was about a serial killer that made you wear trodes so he could project his experiences of killing you into your mind while he was doing it. Really fucked up shit, and I rarely curse. biggrin.gif
Kanada Ten
What about a high tech gang's version of a "jump in" or "beat in". They play you the BTL sim of someone being raped, mutilated, and beat to death (while they all experience the other side). If you survive the chip, you're in the gang.
mfb
could do the same thing with illusion spells, for a wizzer gang.
Kanada Ten
Illusionary rape and virtual rape... How do you prove a crime that only exists in the mind?

Spell signatures and data tracking? A few seconds to Cleanse the first, and almost too easy to fake the latter...
Shrike30
That's, uh... an interesting thought. I can't really imagine any gang that would want a member to live through that not feeling it would be appropriate just to beat them in themselves, though...
mfb
*shrug* real-world gang initiations sometimes include real rape. going through something like that so that the perpetrator(s) will accept you isn't palatable to you (or me)--but, then, we're not the type of people who'd be interested in joining a gang to begin with.
Snow_Fox
QUOTE (mfb @ May 19 2006, 05:44 PM)
QUOTE (Snow Fox)
You are not just wrong, you're offensive...

i really don't understand how anyone can be offended by the idea that doing stupid things in dangerous situations will get you hurt. nobody gets offended when i say that jumping off cliffs is likely to kill you.


The key flaw in your argument is that the cliff is not an active agent. It doesn't pull itself out from under the victim. The rapist makes an active choice to "meddle" with another person.

Sure someone being stupid is stupid, but being in the state of stupidity does not mean the person sacrifices the right to life and liberty. If that were were true the whole lot of you rapist apologists running around here would be on the engandered list.
mfb
Snow Fox, i'm not apologizing for rapists. i'm simply saying that it's unrealistic to act stupid in dangerous situations and expect to have nothing bad happen. if you like, i can change it from "jumping off a cliff" to "teasing hungry animals". it's a fact of life that if you are stupid enough to do something dangerous, you are probably going to get hurt.

if that happens, yes, punish the rapist. he's 100% guilty. but punishing a criminal after the fact does not prevent the crime from being committed. if you want to prevent rape, don't put yourself in situations where being raped is more likely. this is not about blame, or fault or anything else--it's about not getting raped.

you, Snow Fox, understand this already at some level. i know this because you carry a gun and are trained in its use. it boils down to a very simple question: who is responsible for your safety?
Arethusa
Are you deliberately ignoring everything you keep responding to?

The crime of the rapist does not obviate the victim of all possible responsibility any more than the victim's behavior obviates the rapist of guilt. These are not mutually exclusive. Responsibility is not a dichotomy.
Kanada Ten
Part of preventing a crime could be having an intolerant stance towards it by the majority of society. Thus we could argue that even looking honestly at the issue, removing the black and white quality of it, might damage the natural pressure against rape... However, that's a tough sell.

[e] Yet, a large problem is the guilt felt by rape victims, adding to this by suggesting they really are guilty when not even half report the crime is probably not going to help anything (it doesn't matter if guilt != responsibility, that's a complex issue to indoctrinate). It would be better to direct responsibility at society and the rapist until crime reporting is much closer to crimes committed.

Thus, no more calling rape victims stupid.
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