The -6 you get for "Meat' actions while in Full VR. (Granted, the example that was given was for merely perceiving the Meat World, but if perception is that bad I can imagine actually trying to move, although you'd have to disable the motor function over-rides first.)
As for being 'balanced', you've already let slip that your character has very low Physical stats but yet YOU think that rigging yourself will allow your character to run in the meat and you even used the word Tank.
You have also stated that the reason you are holding on to the idea that rigging your own body will provide extra IPs is because you do not want to 'waste' Essence on Wired Reflexes instead using Cyber to boost your pitiful Physical Stats. (I believe your exact words were that you didn't spend ANY BPs on Agility or Body.)
As for Feedback, well considering that it only becomes an issue while running in Hot Sim, AND that it is resisted with Biofeedback Filter + Willpower, I'm going to assume that it isn't going to be a huge problem since you had to have spent the BPs you saved on Physical Stats somewhere.
And Piloting Rolls for everyday activities, well I'm going to assume that your DM is going to gloss over them for the most part in order to keep the game from getting blogged down, and for that matter, the way I read the Rigging rules I'm not entirely sure that you would need to make Pilot Rolls and even if you did you'd be using your normal skills/stats so I don't see it as a huge hassle either.