QUOTE (Critias @ Dec 17 2008, 08:55 AM)

It is nothing short of hilarious to me that some people are doing their best to politely explain to you that right now you're jabbing a lot of people with a stick, and instead of not jabbing, you're picking up new sticks to jab more people with. Dumpshockers are showing amazing restraint and trying to explain to you that what you're saying is, whether you mean for it to be or not, the sort of thing that sparks flame wars and turns threads sour -- and rather than listen to them, you're belittling them, arguing with them, and saying people shouldn't get worked up as though that somehow means they won't.
I know I've heard that one before in this thread. In what way is it amazing to show restraint over someone arguing that people need to take stuff less seriously? Especially on a forum where flipping out and throwing tantrums would probably violate some of the rules? You guys are all saying "be quiet because the kind of thing you say sparks flame wars." That is the
heckler's veto. It's saying that, even though what I'm saying is perfectly reasonable, there are some unreasonable people out there who will take it the wrong way. And for this reason, I must shut my big mouth and say nothing more. I'm sorry, but the people who need to pipe down are the really unreasonable people who can't participate in a civil discussion. So far though, they appear to be imaginary, because they haven't popped up yet.
And comparing this to slavery? I wonder how deliberate that metaphor choice was. Is it because you think that this issue is near the same level, or just to make your example clearer? As you may be aware, people suffered very real and physical injuries during slavery, and I wouldn't say it's justified to tell them to forget about it and stop being such big babies. I mean, can you spot the absurdity in the statement "stop acting like slavery was such a big deal"? But what we're talking about is worlds away from that. It is a dispute between two editions of the same game, both of which still exist and can be freely played by whoever wants to play them, and ignored by whoever wants to ignore them...
What I am suggesting is quite simply that nobody suffered any physical injuries or lasting trauma over the change in editions, on either side. Why would someone flame me for saying that, if it is true? What I am suggesting is that treating the change in editions as a lasting wound is hurting the cause of peace. People use it as an excuse to flame, they say "I flamed because you said something that reopened old wounds and made me bleed all over the place." It's that kind of bullshit that needs to be done away with. Nobody seems to disagree with that, they simply accept that as long as there are flamers out there, it is improper to say things that could make them mad.
Also, there's the argument "stop acting like you know everything." If I was wrong, maybe I should stop pretending I was right. But so far, nobody's saying I'm wrong. They're just saying that certain people disagree with me even if I'm right. And nobody's arguing that those people who would flame over this debate are reasonable--they're saying that these people are so unreasonable that I have to censor myself to avoid angering them, in fact, because they cannot control themselves when they get angry. Again, that is their problem, not mine. If my admonishments to own up to reality are wrong, if someone
was permanently injured by this whole debacle, then I'd be glad to retract my statements. But if I'm right, as I suspect, then I think I'm fully justified in acting like it.